Unfaithful

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Can a Husband’s Behavior Force a Woman to Be Unfaithful?
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I believe a husband’s behavior can definitely force women to be unfaithful. Men who disrespect their wives and constantly nag them; court on them; call them names and accuse them of things they’ve never thought of doing; humiliate them in front of people; degrade them by telling them they’re nuts and don’t know what they’re doing; pushing them around; never giving them a kind word; never treating them as a human being; making fun or them; going out to bars and nightclubs without them; tells them they don’t want to be seen out in public with them, etc., etc., kills women’s self-respect, self-confidence, respect for their spouses, and kills the love they once had for their spouses.

Women will definitely look to other men for their attentions and affections they are not getting at home. Many women feel if they’re already accused of doing what their spouses are accusing them of doing, they might as well live up to their accuser’s accusations and do it. Women can only take so much abuse in a marriage without a retaliation of some sort coming out. Once women have been brain washed to believe they’re not worthy of their spouse’s love, they will resort to many of the accusations they’re being accused of. Women should not take the abuse of a spouse regardless if it’s verbal or physical abuse. Words and accusations hurt as much as a slap across the face and once a spouse’s accusations are pointed at their wife, it leaves them to feel their spouse’s words were said in earnest or they would have never said it to them in the first place.

I’m a firm believer once a person loses respect for their spouse, there’s nothing left in the marriage, and there is definitely no love left. Lots of women stay with a rude, abusive, disrespectful spouse because of their children and I feel this is the wrong thing for them to do for the children’s sake. Children learn their parent’s traits and behavioral patterns and I do believe this forms children’s basis in life. I think it is best to take your children out of this type of a relationship because it will have an adverse effect on them in later years.

No one, regardless if it is a husband or wife, deserves to be mistreated and treated unfairly, and if a spouse does not love their mate they should step out of their mates life and let them move on in their’s.